yinggaizenmeheqingchunqidehaizixiangchu？zheishikunraobushaofumudenanti。zheiyishiqi，zheixiebandadehaizicongshentidaoxinlidouzaijijufashengbianhua，kewangchengren，danqiyuelihechengshuduyoujuxianzhetamendechengzhangfangshi。qingchunqidehaizimenyouqixuyaofumudepeibanhezhidao，danruguozhidaobudang，youhenrongyizaochengnifanshenzhishanghai。
青春期可能要到30岁才能结束
yb体育haizibuyuanshuohua，panni，nanyigoutong，buzhidaonajuhuajiuranghaizizhalemao。xiangxinjiayouqingchunqihaizidejiazhangdoushenyoutihui。
womenchangrenweiqingchunqishi12-18sui，zhenghaoshichugaozhongzheigejieduan，yibanjuedehaizidao18suijiushigechengnianrenle，danshixianzaiyouyuelaiyueduodexinlixuejiarenweizhenzhengdeqingchunqiyaodao30suicaihuijieshu，yibufenzhongyaodeshengliyuanyinjiushiyinweiqianeyepizhimeiyouzhanghao。
danaozhongyouyigefeichangzhongyaodebuweijiaozuoqianeyepizhi，tachabuduojiushizaiwomenetouhoumiandebufen。qianeyefuzepanduan、luojituili、xingweidezhixing、kongzhichongdongdeng。kepianpianzheimezhongyaodeyigebuwei，queshiwomenzhenggerentifazhanzuimandeyigebufen。
yb体育1988nianniujindaxuedeyixiangyanjiubiaoming，pingjunnianling22suizuoyou，renleideqianeyekeyifazhanhaochabuduo80%degongneng。jinqideyanjiuzhichupingjunnianlingyanhoudaole30suizuoyou。
suoyi，buyaodongbudongzhizehaizishige“huai”haizi，qingchunqidedanaoqishihewomenchengrendedanaoshibuyiyangde，yinweiqianeyemeiyouzhanghao，rangqingshaonianjubeilezuoshibuzhuanzhu、quefaziwokongzhi、qingxuhuadengquedian，zheishishoushenglifazhanjuxiande。buyaorenweihaizipingshideyixiepannixingweishiyouyigenniguobuqu，shenzhirenweishisixiangpindewenti，chongfenrenshipannixinlishiqingchunqihaiziyigezhengchangdexinlitezheng，zheiyangjiubuhuimaoranpipinghaizi。
qingchunqidehaiziyifangmianmianlinjudadeshengliyuxinlibianhua，lingyifangmianhaizihuimianlinhenduozhilishangdetiaozhan，zheigeshiqichenggongshibaideduibitebiexianming，duiyutadechongjiyetebieda，haizikaishizhenzhengdizaihenduoshehuigongnengshang、congzhouweiderenjirentongshangzhaozijideweizhi，xueyeshangdecuozhehuihendachengdudiyingxiangtaduizijidepingjia，erqiexinlishangchuxianyigeliangjifenhuadexintai，renweizijishiyigeshibaizhe。henduoqingchunqidewentidoubeibiaomiandexuexiheyouxiwentisuoyangai，qishikeyiconghaiziderenjiguanxiherichangshenghuo，yijitaduiyixieshiqingdetaidushangganshoudaotadebianhua。
青春期的“罗密欧与朱丽叶效应”
congmouzhongyiyishanglaishuo，nianqingrendepanniyouqilingrenxinxizhichu，zheiyikenengshiyigerenchengshudebijingzhilu。yinweiqingchunqihaizidepanni，yuanziyuziwoduliyishidefazhan。
yb体育xinlixueshangyouyige“luomiouyuzhuliyexiaoying”，jidangchuxianganraolianaishuangfangaiqingguanxidewaizaililiangshi，lianaishuangfangdeqingganfanerhuijiaqiang，lianaiguanxiyeyincigengjialaogu。duiqingshaonianeryan，tamendexuduopannibiaoxian，qiaqiahe“luomiouyuzhuliyexiaoying”xiangguan。qishibujinqingshaonian，bujinaiqingzheiyang，renxingbenshenjiuruci，yueshijinjidedongxi，womenbianyufadixiangchangshiyixia。
duiyuneixiepannideqingshaonianlaishuo，tamenzhisuoyiquzuomouxieshi，benlaibingbuyidingshiyinweixihuan，ershiyinweiyourenjinzhitamenquzuo。fanzhi，ruguoyigepannidexueshengjuedezijidexiangfa、zuofameiyouyinqichengrendegengduoguanzhuhefandui，renmenbiaoxianchulijieherenke，neimezuoqilaiyejiumeiyoushenmeyisile，pannidewentikenengyeyincierjiejuele。
yb体育shenjingyuyanchengxuxuerenwei，xingweibeihouzongcunzaizhengmiandongji，shiquli？haishibihai？henshizhidetantao。yigezaiketangshangzongshipazhuoshuijuehuoshijiehuadaoluanweifanjilvdehaizi，yigezongxihuanzaiyizhefushihuoxingweifangshishangbiaoxinliyidehaizi，tamenpannixingweibeihoudexinlisuqiushishenme？
ruguowomenzhishikandaoxueshengdecuowuxingwei，hushihuofoudinglebeihoudezhengmiandongji，shenzhijicuowudexingweitieshangfumianderengebiaoqian，neimejiuhuijifaxueshengdekangjuxinli，zaochengyuegoutongmaodunyueshen、yuechuliwentiyueduodejumian。
yb体育ruguotongguojijisiweizhaochuxueshengdezhengmiandongji，ranhouyinshilidao，dangxueshengxingweibeihoudezhengmiandongjibeikending、beijieshouzhihou，tahuiyouyizhongbeikandao、beilijie、beizunzhongdeganjue。
屏幕时代的亲子关系有更多挑战
“00hou”gen“90hou”deyigetebiedadequbiezaiyuxianshiyuxuhuanshijiedebianjiebutong。
yb体育“00hou”youyuquefalehenduoyuxianshishijiedelianjie，bushaohaizihuizaimianduigoujianzhenshiguanxideshihouyudaowenti。
yb体育biruxianzaidehaizihenshaozhidaoquyoujujixinshizenmehuishier、henshaoqucaichang，kenengmaidongxiyedoushitongguotaobao、jingdongdengdianshangqudao。zaitashenghuozuichudeshijinianli，ruguotaduoshudoushizaiwangluozheiyangdexunishijielichushi，kenenghuiyuxuduoxianshidedongxishiqulianxi。
yb体育xiangxiangyixia，dangtajinrudaxuehetongxueyiqizhusushe，dangtakaishiyaotanlianai，kaishiyaozourugongsiqumianshi，kaishimianduihenduorenshengzhenshijuezedeshihou，tajiuhuifeichangdibuzhisuocuo。
womenshuofangxiashoujihenzhongyao，tabujinshiyigeweilerongqiaqinziguanxierjinxingdeyigejudong，gengshibangzhumeigerenhezhenshishijiechanshenglianjiedeyigedongzuo。daihaizidaodaziranlizouyizou，napazhishizaixiaoqulisangebu，zaijialijiaohaizizuodunfanqiechaodan，tayeshiyigehenzhenshidelianjie。
yb体育zaixianjindeyuerhuanjingzhong，zheizhongzhenshide、tuolixunishijiedetiyan，mouzhongchengdushangyijingxuyaowomenkeyiquyingzaole。
yb体育zairenzhicengmian，womendehaiziyaoxuehuizaizheiyangyigewangluoshijielishengcun，danzaiqinggancengmian，meigerenshengerweirenjiuxiangyaokongqiyaoshuiyaoshiwuyiyang，yexuyaoyongyougaozhiliangdeguanxi。erzheigegaozhiliangdeguanxibudandanshiqinmiguanxi，tahaibaokuohezirandeguanxi，yuwenxuehezhexuehehenduozhenshitiyandeguanxi。
daduoshurenhenduoshihoushizaizhuizhuyigefenshu，zhuizhuyigejieguo，danshi“guanxi”zheigefeichangdongtaibianhuadechouxiangdedongxi，taduiyigerenlaishuojuyoushengcunjibiedezhongyaoxing。
yb体育jiayouqingchunqihaizi，fumuyaozenmezuo？
yaoxiangyu“00hou”haizijianligaozhiliangdeguanxi，fumulaojiyixialiangjuhua:
buqiubuzhu，youqiubiying。
zheijuhuashiyiguxinlizhiliaoshilizixunsuoshuode，jiushihaizibulaiqiunibangmang，nibuyaozhudongwen“niyaobuyaozheiyaobuyaonei”，danshidangtayouqiuyunideshihouyidingyaoyouhuiying。buyidingshiyouqiubizhu，danshiyouqiubiying。
duiyulixianghuadeqinziguanxi，xinlixuejiawenniketeyoujuhuajiaozuo“buhanyouhuodeshenqing，buhandiyidejianjue”。
yb体育“buhanyouhuodeshenqing”shizhi，ruguowojintianduinihaoshiyinweiwoxiwangnimingtiankeyiqushangzheigebuxiban、canjianeigebisaizhilei，zheiyangdeqingganjiushidaiyouyouhuoxingde。fumushizhendeyaoqukanjianhaizi、guanxinhaizi、lijiehaizi，erbushizaiguanxindebeihouyinzanghenduokongzhiheyouhuo。
yb体育“buhandiyidejianjue”jiushizhihaizizaichengzhangguochengzhong，biruqianeyemeifazhanhaodeshihou，nanmianhuizuohenduokenengzaiwomenkanlaihenbukeliyudeshiqing，womenyingdangbianjieqingxidiyutamengoutong、wenheerjiandingdizhizhi，erbushijiejiquxiurubiandifoudinghaizi。
yb体育henduoshihou，womenhouhaizihedahaizidebeihouwangwangyeyiweizhe，babamamazijideqingganxinzhixuyaodedaogengduodezhaogu。
12tiaojifumudegoutongjianyi
1. jiyutagerenkongjian。beiguofenguanshudehaizihuisangshiziwodiaoshidejihui，wangwanghuihenmune。
2. genhaizishuoyixiemeiyongdehua，keyiliaobaguayekeyiwanyouxi，shijianjiule，tajiushenmedouyuanyigennishuo。ruguonigentaliaodedoushiyouyongde，tahuijuedezijimeiyouneimeduoyouyongdeshigenniliao。
3. pingshitadeduliyishi。haizixiwangzishendedaorentong，xiwangjiazhangyutapingdengxiangchu，jiazhangyaozaipengyouhejiazhangdejiaosezhijianhelizhuanhuan。
4. chengrentadui。haizizaizheiyijieduankewangdedaorentong，jiazhangbuyaoqingyifoudinghaizidexiangfahezuoshifangfa。haiziyouhaizidexiangfa，yexutamendemouxiexiangfajiushitaweilaidexiangfa。
yb体育5. qingchunqihaiziqingxuqifubijiaoda，suoyigentamentanhuayidingyaozhuyishijianchanghe，zhuyijiqiao，xuehuichayanguanse，youshizhenghuafanshuoxiaoguohuigenghao。
yb体育6. zaihaizimianqianbuyaobanyanquanzhiquannengdefumujiaose，shidangdizhuangsha，bujiangjiuquanwei，goutongshipeiyanghaizidezunyan。
7. duihaiziganxingqudeshiwubiaoxianchuxingquyizhiyuxinshang，qiemoyongzijidejiazhixielaipingduanhaizidejianshangli。yaozhidao，haizihuiduifumudejiazhipanduanfeichangmingan，fumufanduitasuoxihuande，tahuigandaojiaolvhechongtu，rongyihefumutaigang。
8. buqingyifoudinghaizijiandeyouyi。
9. jidianyangguang。duihaizi，biaoyanghegulidezuoyongyongyuandayupiping，haiziwangwanghuichaozhegulidefangxiangchengzhang。
yb体育10. danghaizibiaoxianchuduiwaibiaoshencaideguoduzaiyihejiaolvshi，jiazhangyaolejieqizhongyuanyin，renzhenqingtingtamendezhenshixiangfa、kunhuoheyali，buyaofoudingtamenneixindezhenshiganjue。jiazhanghaixuyaojieshi，yulemingxingdewanmeixingxiangdaduoshitongguo“houqijiagong”dedaode，zheizhongxingxiangbingfeipingchangrenyinggaidadaodebiaozhun。
11. shidumaoxian。meiyouguomaoxiandejingli，buhuizhidaomaoxianyoushishirenshengdexuyao，yebuhuijubeibixianbihaidenengli。
yb体育12. haizichengzhangshiyigemandeguocheng，suoyourendouyinggaijieshouzheigeguandian，baxinfangkuanyidian，bayaoqiufangdiyidian，womenhuifaxianhaiziqishihenkeai。haizipannishixuyaoshenghuojiaotamenchengzhang。 |
